My want is never ending. No matter what quantity or quality
exists in my life, I always want it better with few exceptions. This is great
for businesses but contributes to discontent people being envious.
Something I have found to be helpful is separating need from
want, and having moderation with want. This is why I am a firm believer in
having a budget. The mysterious nature of money being scarce remains, but life
doesn’t feel financially cruel because I have mapped out where it goes.
If the foundation of my life makes me happy, than extra is
good but not necessary. Yes, it is important to create memories with family and
friends. However, if I am discontent with both, how is making memories going to
help? I’ll just remember being unhappy.
Matter is a terrible escape. It consumes my cash, time, and
happiness and also leaves me wanting more. Sounds a lot like an addiction.
Simply living isn’t about having everything, or even nothing. It is about being
content wherever you are. If I was more content with where I am, maybe I
wouldn’t always be looking for the next thing to provide temporary pleasure.
You and your brother are very much alike here in regards to seeing the need for having a budget! We have found having a budget to be very freeing because we have essentially planned for the worst. It also produces restraint on the urge to spend. ;)
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